Getting Christmas Right: With the Gifts We Give

December 16, 2007 - Rev. Kevin Kelly, Rev. Allison Posell

Matthew 12:1-12, 1 Peter 1:18-20

How are you responding to the contrast between the spiritual significance of Christmas and the shopping frenzy that typifies a commercialized holiday? We can learn quite a bit about this from the wise men in Matthew 2:1-12. Follow this guide for practical application of how to handle holiday gift-giving (and receiving) and gleaning what you can for a new understanding of the ultimate gift we have received in Jesus Christ.

Who were the wise men? They noticed the new star in the sky and connected the presence of the star with the birth of a king. They had knowledge of the prophecy and planned to journey to greet this king. They planned ahead and selected their gifts before they arrived in Bethlehem. Are you still waiting for the last minute rush to get your gifts? How do you keep from getting caught up in the holiday sales? How do you keep from going into debt? Do you limit the amount you choose to spend? If it's too late for this year, begin next year. Set a limit and stick to it. The debt hangs around much longer than the artificial boughs of holly!

We typically purchase gifts for people in 3 categories – family, friends, and co- workers. Look beyond them for those people you think might be overlooked this Christmas. Who's probably not going to get cards, gifts and blessings because they just aren't the center of someone else's life and energy? If you can, do a little something for these people; it might restore the joy of giving!

Part of this planning is personalizing your gifts. The wise men selected gifts fit for a king. Even though he was still a baby, they selected his gifts based on what Jesus was to become. Is your gift thoughtful beyond just a "good or cute" idea? If we don't know people well enough, there can be disappointment and drama. Our gifts are to convey our celebration of one another's interests, uniqueness, and passions. Think of one of your favorite gifts; what made it special to you?

The wise men considered the value of their gifts. Clear direction is this: stay within your God-given means as you exchange gifts with family and friends. Though it might be a challenge, keep within the guidelines of Biblical stewardship; don’t spend more than you have! The loving and creative gift tells a person you care about them; it doesn’t have to be expensive. If you give gifts beyond your resources, what is your motive? Sometimes we give expensive or lavish gifts as bribery or strokes for our own egos. Think carefully; what is your intent?

The presentation of your gift reflects the heart of the giver and the receiver. The wise men presented their gifts to Jesus by bowing down and worshiping him; they were humble. The gift was about Jesus, not each of them. They gave to honor Jesus and gave without expectation. Do you give out of guilt or gratitude? What expectations do you have this time of year? When someone gives you a gift, do you take it for granted, respond with guilt, or respond with gratitude?

This year, get Christmas right and, before exchanging your material gifts, stop and acknowledge the ultimate, redemptive gift in the person of Jesus Christ. Read the Christmas story, say a prayer of gratefulness, and then tear open those packages and have fun!